(Editor's Note: The following article was written by Department of Social and Rehabilitation Services Deputy Secretary Janet Schalansky. She is leading a foster care recruiting effort in Kansas to try to find foster homes for children who because of abuse or neglect have been placed by the courts in the custody of the state. The article could be used as a column or as an op-ed piece. Thank you for your attention to this tremendous need in Kansas.) 

There are approximately 4,200 kids in Kansas who are in foster care today. Many of those kids need a foster home -- some for a few days, others for a few weeks, and some until they are ready to tackle the world on their own. Each child has a name, a smile, and a story that might break your heart. They are regular kids with hopes and dreams who also test and challenge. Many of these kids may go back home eventually, but for now they need a safe place to stay.

We don't care if you own your own home, if you are single or married, what your religious beliefs are, what neighborhood you live in, or a long list of other factors people often assume we care about. We care about your parenting skills and we are willing to show you how to improve them. We care about your character, your patience, and we care deeply about your commitment to helping children.

You could be the answer to someone's prayers and have a chance to change the world -- one kid at a time. So, think it over. Then, consider carefully the first question you will answer, for there is a child who is waiting, dreaming, and hoping for the chance to build a better life. Is there room in your heart to foster a child? I hope the following questions and answers provide you with assurance that you can accept this challenge.

Why be a foster parent?

The family is the best place for a child to grow. But some children are abused and neglected in their own families. They need someone who can provide them with a safe and supportive temporary home.

Who are the children who need foster parents?

• Children who need foster care may be infants, toddlers, preschoolers, grade school age, or teenagers. They come from many types of backgrounds and families.

• Many foster children have been emotionally, physically, or sexually abused. As a result, they may have emotional, behavioral, or physical problems. Many are insecure, frightened, confused, and often angry about what is happening to them.

What kinds of foster parents do these children need?

• There is a special loving quality found in the wide range of people who become successful foster parents, but there the similarity stops. Each has a unique personality, background, and lifestyle.

What kinds of support do foster parents receive?

• Initial orientation and ongoing training; monthly support groups; regular visits and support; access to therapeutic services; reimbursement for living, medical, dental, clothing, and school-related expenses.

Who can be a foster parent?

• There is no one criteria for being a foster parent. Single people, childless couples, couples with children, and couples in which both partners are working may be considered for foster parenting. Even people with no special background in child care can become foster parents.

Who do I contact for more information about becoming a foster parent?

• Contact the Kansas Families For Kids hotline at 1-800-210-5387.

Page Last Updated: May 29, 2001